“Tea, alcohol and females,

these few trifles are keeping me distracted…”

Một trà một rượu một đàn bà,

ba cái lăng nhăng nó quấy ta (Tú Xương)

Is it true that these “trifles” distract us? Not really! “The wind does not move, the flag does not move. Only the mind does” [said the 6th Zen Patriarch]. When our mind is peaceful, what can “distract” us? Should anger or sadness (or anything else) come into being, we only need to “extinguish” them all, to let go of them entirely and that’s it! The surface of a lake must be motionless for the moon’s reflection to hold. But that takes time. We have to train painfully for a long time, it will not do to rush progress. The word “extinguish” here does not mean to destroy but to put aside, or “not to let it come into being again”, or let it be in an “unborn state”. If we train skillfully, we can “extinguish all the sentient beings”, why not? To “extinguish all the sentient beings” also means that no sentient being has been extinguished, because if they no longer come into being, what is left to be extinguished?

But it seems that even this [explanation] doesn’t entirely make sense!